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Dear Joyce, I received your Christmas card yesterday just after I emailed Jayne to see what the situation was with Bruce. You have so much courage and strength! I had tears in my eyes after Jayne told me what the both of you have been going through. It's such a reality check when you hear of people facing such challenges. It reminds you how much we take for granted. My thoughts and prayers are with Bruce and you. I send you my love. Always, Jay ***** Dear Bruce, Delighted with the news that you are now continuing your rehab at the Blaire House. It sounds like a very good place to continue with your recovery. Keep in mind that you and Joyce are in our prayers each day. Hang in and continue the good fight. Love, Rosemari & Paul ***** Hello Joyce and Bruce – Just a note to let you know you are in my prayers. Ruth ***** Congratulations!!! Things sound so good. We are so proud for you and so very proud of Bruce. You both will be forever in our prayers for ONLY the best to come for Bruce. Hopefully the HOME OF CHOICE for now will work out for him when the time comes. Not a day goes by that you all are NOT in our thoughts and prayers. Tim & Rita ***** Hi Joyce. I just talked to mom, good to see the ESP is still working. Just wanted to let you know that we love you and Bruce. You are doing a great job of caring for him and keeping us all updated. Please let Bruce know how much he means to our whole family and that we are thinking of you both. Love Natalie ***** We continue to send our love and prayers your way. Mary and Mark Beasley ***** Keep fighting, I know you can do it. Tim Fulton Alaska Airlines Sitka station. ***** Our Dearest Bruce, I'm sooo glad to hear that things are getting a little better for you. You may not think so but they are. Your friends out here are literally holding vigils for you. Candles/beer, whatever we can hold. We love you and want you to answer each and every one of us soon. Just wanted to touch base with you and tell you we love you will all our hearts. Our prayers are with you daily. You will never be alone in this. Your wife is an amazing person. Not only is she by your side each minute you need her but keeping the rest of us included in your progress. I've been reading the other emails from our friends in Sitka and around the globe that are giving you 'kudo's' for being such a trooper. You truly are blessed. Hugs to the both of you. Without you and Joyce in this world the sun would simply not shine as bright. Love Kelly, Reed and Kory Knowlton ***** We hope you have a Happy Thanksgiving. We are thankful for Bruce's continued recovery and for Joyce's strengh. We send our love and prayers your way. Love, Mary and Mark Beasley ***** Hi, Jo0yce & Bruce, just read the latest updates and was good to hear all the latest happenings. So much improvement!!!! Hopefully, by now, he is getting the blood thinner problem correct so that he can have the G-tube replaced. We are so happy for you both. You continue to be in ALL our prayers & thoughts. Rita & Tim ***** Joyce - I worked with Bruce at CG Headquarters for several years. I was extremely saddened to hear of his horrible ordeal and my thoughts and prayers are with Bruce, you and your entire family. Bruce was always such a funny and caring person, he would act like he was tough but he was always a softee and would always help everyone he could. I will pray for him ofen and I hope and have faith that he will have a full recovery. Stay strong. Bobbie O'Brien and Family ***** We are cheering you on here in Wallingford. We know how hard you are working each day and your continuing progress is remarkable and miraculous. You are blessed with a marvelous medical team including all your therapists in speech, P.T. and O.T. You have the incredible love of Joyce and all your family and a billion people who respect and love you in all the corners of the world. Last but most important of all you have a loving God who hovers over you and has given you the strength and endurance to come this far. All our prayers continue to be with you each and every day. Hang in and continue to work hard. All our love. Rosemari&Paul ***** Well Bruce that's one hell of a way to get some good muscle relaxers but I'm glad to hear you aren't in much pain and are working so hard to get better. I hope all the doctors and staff at Spaulding get to read the thoughts of your friends and family. If they do they'll know that you want to keep going and you WILL keep going. We know Joyce is looking out for you and we are all looking out for her. We miss you both. Natalie and family ***** I have been away from the site for a few weeks...moving Jennifer to California and just day to day things...every day I have thought of you and just now caught up on the changes since I last checked....UNBELIEVABLE (well actually it doesn't surprise me - the "spirit" is so obvious here) I am just crying with joy reading your posts Joyce...though what you have to do day to day must be stressful I am inspired by your devotion and drive to be Bruce's voice when he could not be.......look at what is happening....I am so moved by your will together.........it puts many things in perspective...say "HI" to him......and that we are thinking of him and all of you....love to all of you from my whole family....Deb Fowler ***** Joyce and Bruce and Family, I am sitting here with
tears in my eyes after reading all the updates posted since last I spoke
with you Joyce. My heart goes out to you for all the ups and downs you
have been through and how you have remained so positive through it all.
I think of you both so often. The hustle and bustle of raising the twins
and my job leave me very little time to catch up on my e-mail/personal
computer time and I feel I am always a month behind. Everyday I think
about you and wonder how you are doing. I was happy to read of Bruce's
progress and I am finding out through you Joyce what kind of strength he
has always had that I did not know about. The kids asked what I am doing
when they saw me here at the keyboard with tears and I filled them in on
what has been happening with "aunt" Joyce and "uncle" Bruce. I can see
their concern and caring are genuine. The 3 of us are praying for
Bruce's recovery and you are very much in our thoughts. I love you
Joyce, always. Gail, Cole and Allie ***** "Hi Bruce! This is Chuck and Gerry Young, the pastor and his wife from Sitka United Methodist Church - and also two of your many Sitka friends. We are very sorry to hear about your misfortune, but know that God is with you and all those who are doing such a great job caring for you. We will keep you and Joyce, and all concerned, in our prayers each day. I will never forget you for many reasons, but two stand out: 1.) the fabulous job you did keeping our church building in such good shape (very important to a pastor, who gets stuck with those jobs if he doesn't have anyone to do them!), but more importantly, 2.) your ever famous question: 'Why don't we ever have any pot-lucks around here? I thought Methodists were supposed to have a lot of pot-lucks!' That was the start of "Last Sunday Lunch" which is still a tradition in the Sitka Church I understand. You are a fantastic person, brother, and we are not surprised that you have done so well given the problems you have faced. Hang in there, brother - WE LOVE YOU (AND JOYCE) VERY MUCH, AND ALWAYS WILL!!!" I (we - Gerry doesn't venture on to e.mail) look forward to being in closer communication with you both by e.mail and by phone. Please feel free to call us any time. I'm glad you have such a wide and deep support group already, and we are honored to be added - actively, now - to that group. Please hear again what I said to you this morning on the phone, and what you have, I'm glad to hear, already been told by so many people: YOU ARE DOING GREAT, AND ARE A STRONG PERSON. Realizing that one of the strengths of a strong person is the ability to emotionally "fall apart" now and then, for awhile, makes you all the stronger, and easier to support as so many people are, and want to do. (End of pastoral counseling message, sorry.) Write or call when you get a minute, which I'm sure aren't all that easy to find. Our very deepest love and respect and prayers to both of you, Chuck and Gerry ***** Dear Joyce and Bruce, We are overjoyed at Bruce's progress! Thank you for your tireles updates. We have been praying for God's blessings on you and guidance for Bruce's caregivers. Cindi and I are on our winter migratory journey. We have set up our Motorhome at an RV park in Phoenix and Cindi will get to know the "locals" here while I'm off to Mexico to move a boat to San Diego. I will be sending you my thoughts and prayers on the midnight to 0400 watch. Get that Coastie back on his feet. He's a lot of life yet to live and a darn fine lady to live it with. All our best to you, Dave and Cindi Orchard ***** Hi Bruce, Wow - we are impressed with your progress
this week, Bruce, and hope next week is even better! Joyce and all your
family are sharing your encouraging news with all of us and we are happy
for you and them that Spaulding is really helping you. Keep up the good
work! Fondly, ***** Hi Joyce, again, we want you all to know that all our efforts of strength and love are w/you and Bruce. We pray daily for him and will continue to do so. Hopefully, w/all our efforts from everyone, in faith and prayers, and all the constant efforts and work you do for him, he will be able to continue his therapy at Spauding and continue to improve daily. It does seem that you being present in some of the therapy and meetings w/Spaulding would give some inside insight of the man Bruce is and wants to be again. We are all w/you in each and every way possible. Keep up the good care and efforts you extend to keep the work going for his improvement. We are ALL behind you in every way. We love you all. Rita & Tim and all our Ft. Worth friends who are continuing thoughts and prayers for Bruch & YOU
Joyce and Bruce, We know there is a long road ahead but we still think of both of you and check the website everyday. Sounds like Bruce is kicking butt as usual. Make sure you take good care of yourself Joyce and remember just say the word and mom and I are on a plane there. Love you guys! Natalie, Janet, Andi, and Mary ***** Yes! Bruce, so glad to hear you are back at Spaulding having cleared the hurtles at Mass General ! Keep at it, we are all routing for you! -Flo ***** Hi Joyce! Thank you for leaving thefumias.com
web site for browsing on 3 Lakeside, UMass! I was one of the nurses who
cared for Bruce, only a few times, but enough to feel the love in his
eyes when I looked at the pictures you placed in his room, and to sense
the beauty of the relationship you and Bruce share with each other. It
was a treasure for me to walk into your lives and be a brief caregiver
during your journey at UMass. ***** It was wonderful to read your encouraging update. I
would say that Bruce is on the right track. Do not be discouraged by any
small set backs. They happen sometimes but with the right professional
care and intervention they will not impede his progres. Be assured
always that the positive thoughts and prayers of so many will prevail
and things will go smoothly. Love to all of you. Rosemari&Paul ***** Hi Joyce and all, have been anxious to hear from you again regarding the status of Bruce since being entered back into the hospital. Hope things are going okay. You all are in all our thoughts and prayers. Love, Tim & Rita ***** Dear Joyce and family, rest assured that Bruce, you and families are in our prayers. we will receive communion tomorrow on his behalf. God bless Dr. Tam for his care and bring about a miracle. In loveing prayers, Joanne Fox Shaw and husband Dave Shaw ( Janet Conway is our daughter) ***** So very wonderful to hear the good news of reponse on Bruce's behalf. Know that you both are forever in our thoughts and all our prayers. Keep up the wonderful work, Bruce, as we are ALL cheering for you in each and every breath we take. Joyce, you have been so wonderful in being forever by his side in all ways, thougths, hope & above all, love. That surely will always mean the world to him. Again, we love you all, and you are ALL in our prayers. Again, we remind you, that so very many of our friends here in Ft. Worth ask about the progress of Bruce and keep him in their prayers and thoughts also. Love, Tim & Rita ***** We are still thinking of you everyday. Both of you are fighters and I know things will only get better. Natalie (Janet, Andi, Mary) **** Only Joyce may remember me...I am Janet Conway's sister, Judie. We met when Janet and Joyce were neighbors in Connecticut. Just know that you are in our thoughts and prayers...not a day goes past that I do not pray for Bruce's recovery. Love to all, Judie King ***** Just another quick word to tell you how proud we are of the steps Bruce is taking, if only little ones, they mean so much. Again, we have so many friends here in Ft. Worth that REGULARLY ask about the progress of Bruce. It means so much to us that they ask, as we know it does to you too. ALL our love, thoughts, and prayers are with you all, especially you, Joyce, as we all realize the toll this is taking on you and we all love you for your love to Bruce. May God bless you all and may you know that we are w/you both each & every day. The website means so much to us to be able to read what is going on regularly. Love you all, Tim & Rita ***** We just wanted you to know that we think of you often and check the website daily for updates. We continue to send our love and prayers your way. Love, Mary and Mark Beasley ***** Greetings from Sitka. We are praying for both of you, Joyce and Bruce at choir each week, and several of us are praying daily. Although we cannot be with you, we are with you in our hearts and minds. Blessings to you from your United Methodist Church of Sitka Choir. Julia. ***** Dear Bruce, Joyce, Adam & Chanel, It is wonderful news that Bruce has finally arrived at Spaulding where three hours a day of intensive rehab will have him back on track. It is very hard work but I know that the staff is superb and only has his full recovery on their agenda. Of course, Joyce will also be overseeing everything in her own indomitable and efficient style. We will be awaiting the updates as they come through. As always we send our love and prayers. Rosemari&Paul ***** Thank you all so very much for being there for Bruce. Even though we are physically located very far away in southern California, we have been right there with you in mind and spirit, every moment since we received the news. We have been in continual contact with Glen for updates, and this website is very much appreciated. We pray for Bruce everyday, and have assembled a large group of west coast angels who are doing the same. Paul and Barbara Firth ***** Joyce, My strength to you. Just wanted to let you know that Kimiko (my 8 year old daughter) said one day, out of the blue: "today at quiet time, I said a silent prayer for Bruce so that he would get better..." We are thinking of you both & praying for you. Flo also sends her love & strength. Take care, Diana ***** Hello, Joyce.I was so sorry to hear about Bruce's illness. Please give him my very best. We enjoyed having him with us at NPS Fundamentals so much. My best to you as well. Regards, Maia ***** Hi Joyce, What a godsend theFumias web site is. So encouraging reading the updates on Bruce and the wonderful messages from family, friends, employees, etc. You and Bruce are very blessed having so many prayers and love expressed. I've been thinking about this for awhile now but didn't feel it was appropriate to put in as a message. Don't know if you remember that I had an occupational therapy degree but one of the things we learned was that the olfactory sense was the most primitive sense we as humans have. It is, as I have read recently, also one of the senses that individuals who are in comas, lose to some extent or degree. I was wondering if you or the staff are doing any olfactory stimulation: Bruce's favorite cofee brewing (vanilla flavored is especially fragrant), his favorite perfume that you wear, his favorite cologne he wears, the smell of some of his favorite food (pizza?), any smells related to his work (wish I could bottle newly mowed lawn smell!), favorite candles (probably a no-no for the room if there's oxygen involved but maybe down the road a bit?). These are just some things I was thinking of and maybe has already been done but you just never know what might bring him to the surface. I just heard encouraging news in Seattle of a woman in her late 30s who had oxygen deprivation and had been on a respirator for 3 months or so. The doctors and hospital said there was no brain activity and told the husband he should perhaps remove her from the respirator and "let her go". It was, as you can imagine, a difficult difficult decision but thinking she wouldn't want to live like that, decided to do it. They removed the respirator and this woman came out of her coma and from what I could tell of the interview they were doing with her, she seemed very normal and like she would have been previously. What a miracle. So.....keep the hope up and know that our Lord is the one in charge. Things may look they're at a standstill sometimes but healing may be taking place and just not be evident. Please don't feel that you need to respond to this message. Love, Cindi ***** Dear Joyce & Bruce I will call Solomon to hard hit the reahab prayers!!! Give Bruce a big kiss from us! Keep the faith...tell God what you want (not what you don't want) We thank God for answering all our prayers in the name of the ascended Jesus Christ AMEN May the Fire of the Holy Ghost heal Bruce immedately and without any setbacks to 100% whole in mind body and spirit! Your faith will overcome. May GOD touch the hearts and minds of all involved with Bruce Firth to decide on the right choice for Bruce Firths best interest at hand. In the name of the ascended Jesus Christ it is done AMEN. Love& Blessings, peggy & gang ***** Hi Joyce, I'm running late for work. I tried to email yesterday, but my computer would not connect (wireless). anyway, I saw Gordon Lightfoot in concert on Friday night. He was great. The amazing thing: I learned from the man in front of me that he had an aortic aneurysm and was in a coma for 2 months. And now he is performing again! Anything is possible! I love you both!!!! -Janet ***** Hi Joyce, I just wanted to drop a line to let you
know you and Bruce and the family are still in my thoughts daily.
Although nothing is certain it is encouraging to hear of Bruce
"surfacing" from time to time. A woman I work with recently visited her
uncle who awoke after a year in a coma. I know the thought of any loved
one being in this state for any length of time must be unbearable but I
hope the fact that this person did recover will give you hope. My sister
Frances and I talk almost daily of Bruce and we are sending our most
positive energy your way. Keep the faith! ***** Latest update sounds like God is working overtime to bring Bruce back in full swing. Solomon always says GOD can do it!. If God answers the prayers of a woman wanting to have a baby. God grants her prayers, but the baby still needs 9 months before it is born. Africa and Colorado continue to ask for healing in ALL aspects of Bruce. Anytime you'd like to talk I'm a phone call away. Love & Blessings, The Taylors ***** Just another quick note to tell you all how much we are praying for Bruce and all of you, as his supporters. He has so many who are here thinking about him regularly and praying for him as we are each of you family members, and especially you, Joyce. We know how trying this is for you and you are in all our thoughts, love and prayers. May God be w/you each and every day. We love you all. Tim & Rita ***** Just want to let you know that Bruce is in our prayers. And again if there is anything we can do just call. Mike and Karen Landry ***** Dear Joyce and Bruce, I think of you both every day, what you are going through and how hard it must be waiting, hoping, not knowing. I know there are many people who are praying for Bruce to recover. I am happy that I was a part in the chance meeting you had where you found each other. I'm glad I happened to be home when this dreadful thing happened. I pray for a great outcome. I want you both to come visit us in San Diego in the future. We miss you. Please get well. All our love and prayers, Gail, Cole and Allie ***** Your spirit is here in Alaska!!!!!!!!! Deerhunting season is open, blueberries are being harvested, schools are open, artesian water is plentiful, and cruise ships are slowing down. We love you Bruce.........and send our prayers from the Northern Lights to the Massachusetts stars. You can do ALL things through Christ who strengthens you. He is there to guide, strengthen, and encourage you and Joyce and family. Trust in Him........lean on Him fully. He is holding you and Joyce in His everlasting arms. Love, Mary from Sitka ***** We are both thinking of you a lot and hope Bruce’s “windows” continue to open up. We know from experience how much it means to have your family with you as you work hard to heal. We also have learned that “the squeaky wheel gets the grease” at rehab centers, so you are lucky to have such a dedicated family and so many friends working with you. Love, Ruth and Peter ***** I wish Bruce a speedy recovery. My wife works in the UMass/Worcester system, and she says you could not have found a better surgeon for Bruce to have than Dr. Tam. He is getting the best care one can get in this situation. Bruce has a flinty exterior which conceals a heart of gold underneath. I work with Bruce at Minute Man, and have enjoyed (and contributed to) his collection of Ebay Minutemen ephemera on display here, which visitors and employees alike marvel at. Bruce has contributed so much to this park, and I hope to see him up and about again. Our prayers are with him. All the best, Roger and Ingrid Fuller. ***** Joyce we are glad to hear Bruce has taken his first steps on the long road to recovey,you are both still in our prayers. I am always talking about "something" we have done together in the past. The Coast Guard Halloween parties, Christmas parties, the Spouces Club craft sale etc. How Bruce and John would leave at very early hours in the morning to go crabing and fishing before their work day started. How we would have lunch in the back room of the Greek diner with Kelly, Reid and Kori. Now that we can make future plans: BBQ's, camping together, you and Bruce showing us around the State of Mass. and just sitting around talking about "things". We would love to see the leaves changing in the fall some day with both you and Bruce, so please let him know that the Holtzinger family is aways sending our love and prayers for a very speedy recovery. With Love and God's Blessing. John, Sue, Amanda & Zac ***** Dear Joyce & Bruce, Steve and I continue to hold you both in our prayers. I often think of the fun we had creating crafts at your house on Edgecumb Drive.We in Sitka miss you both! Love, Laura and family ***** Hey Bruce, We are still thinking about you every day. Hang in there and look at the move as a positive thing. It's the next big step and we know you can do it. Janet, Natalie, Andi, and Mary ***** Hello. I am so sorry to hear about Bruce!! Margie directed me to the website where I read about everything. It's nice to see that he is slowly getting better. This must have been such a long haul for you. Know that you two are in my prayers, and I'm sending the biggest hug from down south!! Write when you can. Love and prayers, April Joy ***** Joyce, so good to hear from you, but sorry to hear of the outcome of the good news. However, as you said and the website states, the could be only the first signs of a great ending. At least there has been some good moments. And from all he's been thru, this was wonderful. Hope things work out great at he rehad, which I feel sure they will do the VERY best that can be done. Rehab Hosp. are such an encouragement and work so very hard for each and every patient. He will be in great care again, as he has been thru all the very worst trying times. We will continue to pray for you both and all who are part of this, and always know we are concerned and we have very many firiends here in Ft. Worth who check w/us regularly to see how Bruce is doing. We love you all. Our love and prayers are with you both. Love Rita & Tim ***** wonderful news that bruce is showing promising signs of neuro recovery. even intermittently, though frustrating, is super! ...catherine ***** Dear Joyce and Bruce, You continue to be in our thoughts and prayers. The love your friends and family have for you is totally amazing and we hope it strengthens you both for the road ahead. We are not surprised at your progress. Prayer works!! All our love Cindi and Dave ***** Read the very encouraging update from yesterday. Way to go Bruce. It's good to hear that you are showing positive signs of returning to this real world. I can't even begin to imagine the joy that Joyce, Adam, Chanel, your Mom and EVERYBODY who has sent countless thoughts, prayers, well wishes etc. must be feeling. Paul and I are feeling joyful and also a sense of gratitude for how far you have come. Hopefully you will be going to rehab soon. You know Joyce and I will tell you how tough rehab can be but the rewards are great. You have always been a hard worker and we have just witnessed how tough you are. All our love and prayers continue each and every day for you and for all your family. And oh yes, I dragged out the Macaroon recipe that is lovingly made and sent to you and Joyce each Christmas. This year?? I'll be making an extra batch ONLY FOR YOU. With love to all of you. Rosemari ***** Just to let you know your in my prayers day and
night, I know you will come back to your family. When Jesus died
for our sins it is written, BY HIS STRIPS WE ARE HEALED! it's not your
time to go, you have a Wife, Mother, Children, Grandchildren and family
that all love and miss you. ***** I have been away for a while: just returned from fire fighting out west. Bruce is tough. He gets hurt, he gets fixed, he goes back to work. If anyone could come through all what has recently happened to him and be OK it is Bruce Firth. My heart goes out to your family and my sincere wishes for a fast recovery for Bruce. Sincerely, Bill Brooks, Chief Ranger, Minute Man NHP ***** Bruce, Just a note to let you know that all of your friends and co-workers here at Minute Man are still thinking of you and praying for your recovery. We are just waiting to read the update that tells us you have emerged from your present condition and are ordering the nurses and doctors around. Minute Man isn't the same without you. Mike McCarthy ***** Our Dearest Bruce, Joyce will have to read this to you since you won't get up and look at it yourself. As you know, we have just moved here to Littlefield, Tx. We are slowly getting things done. We have painted only one room and are trying to get the other three bedrooms painted and livable. You have been on our minds so much that I have a hard time concentrating. Our cable took 3 weeks to be connected and the internet was hooked up on the 22nd. Of course they did not send the modem for the DSL until the following week.... grrr. Kory is really upset that you are not invincible and the human factor will get us all. You however WILL get better and back to your nasty ol' self in no time. Of this I have no doubt. Reed is adjusting to retirement well and keeping busy with things that need changing in this house (that you are going to come visit soon). I have two part-time jobs. One is at the Country Club Golf Course as the new bar tender and the other is at State Farm. Hours are still 'on call' but they at least call a lot. Our prayers are with you and Joyce more hours than there are in a day so you have to heal and prove us right that there IS power in prayer. I have no doubt there is but you know those 'others'. Take care and I'm sure Joyce will keep us posted. I am keeping an eye on your progress on the website. We all send only happy thoughts to you!!! Love, Kelly ***** Just another short note to let you know we are
regularly reading the updates regarding Bruce and also regulary praying
and thinking of him and all the family. Hopefully soon the brain will
come back alive and that part will mend. Sometimes, that takes longer
than we imagine or think it should. Just know that we all are thinking
of you both regularly and praying daily for Bruce's recovery. So far, he
has done tremendously well at functioning other parts of his body so
that should be an optimistic factor for us to think about and pray for.
We love you all and think about Bruce regularly and have SO many of our
friends here in Ft. Worth involved in his recovery too, and they also
are praying for him daily. Love you both, Rita & Tim ***** Hi Bruce and Joyce, just checking in for the day. There's an air show in Indy and I got to see the Blue Angels flying over the house today. Made me think of servicemen which of course made me think of you. Good to hear that you're sitting up Bruce. Must feel great after lying down for such a long time. Joyce you sound like you are doing really well under the circumstances. Saw my dad a few weeks ago and he and mom were talking about you. (It was weird having them together, but kinda nice too) The whole family is checking in everyday. Stay strong and remember how many people are around to help you out with that. :) Natalie P.S. Jon Byron finally cut his hair and is working out like crazy. You wouldn't even recognize him! ***** Each morning when I wake up and go about my daily
routine I think of you, in the afternoon in the middle of what always
use to seem like there is so much to worry about, I think of you and in
the evening when I go to sleep I say my special thoughts to your hearts
and keep sure in mine that Bruce hears it all and is strengthened by
your faith in him. ***** Bruce - you and all of your family are in our daily prayers. We know that you understand that everyone is taking wonderful care of you and are hoping for you to break through your dreams back into their arms. Ruth and Pater ***** Joyce-Just wanted to say hello-been keeping up thru Jules-figured you had enough on your mind from the first day 'till now. Julie sent me the web info today. I ask that God bring Bruce and you through this, and I belive that He will. He does tend to take His time about these things. I hope you are holding up OK (under the circumstances) and I know your family will be with you. I also know that this is just surreal and you just can't figure out the whys and the hows of it. He is such a good guy and it seems so unfair- I won't give you the "its god's will" crap because I hated hearing that myself. But-it seems that God brought him this far against all odds- and that is something to hold on tight to. Give Bruce's hand a squeeze for me and know that you both are never far fro my thoughts, and always in my prayers. Love you-----Tracy ***** I've been checking the web page and saying prayers for you all. I know if Bruce is able to recover and join you he will. We must focus on the things we can control and let God do his part. Bruce is one of the strongest people I've met. And you both are an inspiration. Please keep the updates coming and we'll be holding you both tight in our prayers. -Laura ***** Hi Bruce! If anybody gets up from this you do.
Anybody who has the Moxie to drive around in bright, yellow Super Beetle
has what it takes to beat. All the footballs and baseballs and yes,
punches we threw at each other are forever etched in my mind. As you are
right now my friend. I'm convinced we'll be shaking hands soon. ***** Hey Bruce! Since Joyce is reading these to you everyday I thought I would remind you of the week we spent in your coast guard housing. Oh yes, every last one of us, all over your house. My mother forcing you to walk all over Cape May and visiting every shop, every beach, every lighthouse and somehow you never threatened her with death. Kudos! But I also remember our trip to Sunset Beach and you telling us about the ship that is half under water there and the Cape May Diamonds. I still have all my Cape May Diamonds the polished and unpolished ones. That will be a summer I'll never forget. Natalie ***** have been checking the site each night when i get home from work, so i end my day with the thought, wonderful, another day closer to bruce waking up. the trach will be better as rosemari said in her note. the gaylord girls know :)..just think of the tpn as steak in a bottle!...catherine ***** Just read the latest updates and am so glad to hear of the progress a little at a time. Those little bitty steps are so important in these situations and we never realize it until faced with this type of problem. Know that all our thougths, prayers and love are with each and every one of you. Bruce is in all our thoughts daily and we only hope for those small steps to become more regular and a little larger. Love and prayers make a lot of difference in these trying times and we are w/you all daily. Tim & Rita ***** been keeping up with Julie and praying for Bruce and your Mom Good for you Bruce- you hang in there- You have a whole bunch of friends you never met in Georgia paying for you and Joyce and your family. Not to mention my daughter and myself. Each day is a victory for you and yours.-----Love from TX-----Tracy ***** Joyce et al, this is Nancy Nelson writing from Montana where I am staying with my father for a while. You are always in my thoughts and I have every confidence that Bruce will continue to get better and better despite all odds! I think I speak for everyone at the park when I say that we miss him greatly. He is a total team player and he is always focused on what is best for the park and is always pulling for all of us as we try to meet our mission day by day. Of course, things are much more difficult without him and his constantly 'smiling' face. I often think I hear him walking around with his incredible collection of keys on his belt announcing his presence long before he actually arrives. I find myself picking up the phone to speak with him about one thing or another and its very hard to remember how hard he is struggling make the recovery I trust will happen. You, of course, are also going through so much. I am so happy you have each other - family and friends make such a difference at times like this....and you and Bruce have many, many friends...certainly more than you know right now. Please let us know how things are going. I'll check back soon, Nancy N ***** We check the site everyday for the updates. It is amazing how many people have been touched by Bruce and Joyce. You continue to be in our prayers. Love, Mary and Mark ***** I thought the latest update was encouraging information taking it system by system. The recommendation to replace the endotracheal tube with a trach is a good one. I know you understand the value of that Joyce from your years at Gaylord. A trach will be more comfortable for Bruce plus give him the option to speak when he is ready to do that. I cannot even imagine how emotionally and physically drained all of you must be but hang in and hang on. I am so energized by reading all the wonderful messages from so many people all over the globe extending their prayers and support. This surely counts for a great deal. Love, Rosemari ***** We are all here and praying Joyce. I can't imagine the stress you are experiencing. While it is different for you than everyone else, you aren't alone. We would all be there to physically hold you and Bruce if we could. Natalie doesn't remember life before you. And my other girls and both of our Adams were born after we were friends. You are a part of all of our lives, and so is Bruce. We won't stop praying. With love, Janet ***** Chanel just told us about Bruce and gave me the web site to keep up with what is happening. I just wanted to let you know he is in our prayers and we are hoping everything turns out ok. The fact that he has made it this long gives great hope. When you visit Bruce, tell him we are thinking of him and praying for him and for you. Good luck. Dick and Gloria ***** From our hearts in Alaska to Bruce's
heart........God can transcend through all lines of communication. We're
to praise the Lord at ALL times. I'm going to praise the Lord for
Bruce's recovery, each and every day. From the Northern Lights to the
sea urchins, from Alaskan eagles to the mink that run along the shore,
from the porpoises to the whales, from the huckleberries in full bloom
to the delicious smoked salmon in our home.......... ***** Hello my name is Shannon, I am Chanel's best friend here in Arizona. I just wanted to express the faith I have in Bruce’s recovery, I have been praying faithfully each day for Bruce to fully recover & keep the faith & strength of his family. I know how upset Chanel was when she recieved the call about her dad, I felt the emotion just a she did because Chanel is like a sister to me. I will continue to pray each day & honestly I have prayed each day for Chanel & her family even before I heard what happend to Bruce. I appreciate the updates on Bruce’s recovery it really helps us to understand Bruce’s progress since we are unable to be there. I look forward to seeing Chanel & Devin tomorrow although I am sorry they were unable to spend more time with Bruce. Love,SHANNON ***** Mary and I had a phone prayer service for Bruce and you. The prayer network at church is going and of course Georgie and Dave and Laura and Steve. When I told Steve, that was the first thing he said that he would pray. I will pass on the webpage. Georgie said she had that via the hospital when she had her first surgery. Please know that even though I will be out of the country, the world wide web works in Prague, too, and I will be checking on you all, and continue to pray. Those long plane trips are good times to pray, for sure. I will keep in touch. Love, Julia Smith ***** You have changed me. I have gone from never looking at my home email to checking it whenever I can. I know Bruce's recovery will be slow...anyone else wouldn't still be with us. But each small step is definite progress. I have to believe that he will improve. Somehow, I can't imagine not having him around. He is such a great guy and became a true friend to me...not just someone who tolerated his wife's friend. I want him to fully recover for himself, for you, and selfishly, for me...I've been to church twice to pray and light candles. Friends everywhere are also praying. It will make a difference. Try to get enough rest. You need your strength to be there for Bruce when he begins to respond. It is actually easier for him now because he isn't aware. It's harder for you right now. I'm encouraging everyone to give blood, preferably in Bruce's name. I read the message from Natalie's friend regarding faith. My very favorite quote about faith: "Faith is believing in something when common sense tells you not to." Natalie Wood's character in Miracle on 34th Street said that. (My favorite actress, favorite Christmas movie, favorite girl's name) Bruce will get better. He will recover and be well. I do believe this. I love you two, Janet ***** Chanel, Thank you for sharing this site with us. I will make sure everyone here at work gets the chance to read it. I know that this is a difficult time for you and your family. My heart goes out to you at this most trying time in your life. Know that you are loved and that our prayers are with you. I also believe that my angels are with you now, giving you the strength. You are so love. We will miss here but understand you are where you need to be. Take care of yourself and Devin. Loving you always, Jean ***** I know you are going through more than you probably ever imagined right now and though Jim and I only met Bruce once we both knew how special he was and what a gift it was for you to have found each other... He is a strong, strong man and I believe he can and does feel everyone's prayers and love as he works silently inside to heal his injuries along with the wonderful care he has gotten. I know he is a long way from being the Bruce you know but amazing things happen in this world every day and I will believe every day as I keep track of what is happening, a special thanks to Adam, that each day a small miracle will happen and day by day he will improve. I love you and think of you often, know that in your heart please. Deb & Jim Fowler ***** we were so sorry to hear about Bruce’s illness. We heard last evening...that he was not well. I went on-line just now to your family website and learned how difficult this week has been for him. Please give our love to him when he awakes, and to [Joyce] and family. Lots of love and hopeful wishes from Peter and Ruth ***** All of you are in my thoughts and prayers. Now faith is being sure of what we hope for and certain of what we do not see. Hebrew 11:1 -Heather- Natalie's friend from Bargersville Fire Dept ***** i have just gone on line and found the dramatic news. the care and expertise, along with bruce's natural strength will prevail. as you know joyce, i am a non believer but my thoughts and best wishes for both of you are constant...xoxo..catherine murray ***** Yesterday's updates were very encouraging. Having Bruce respond to verbal stimuli and gloriously "peeing" are big accomplishments...Continue to hang in and as always each day prayers are being said for Bruce, you, Adam, and the rest of the family. Take care of yourself. -Love, Rosemari ***** Sam and I are back in Colorado. I spoke to Solomon in Africa today, they all are praying for Bruce and ask his progress. They pray Sunday, Monday, Friday, Sat. and then some...with very spiritual heavies! Sam & I often pray together at bedtime and when we get started with our day. I have flashes of the great times we shared in Sitka... remember when we had a surprise 2 year birthday for Sam and he came into the room with all these adults yelling "surprise"!! We still treasure the USCG bear you gave him, and all the love. Love back to you ditto ditto. May God touch your heart,body and soul and may your recovery be fast and perfect. In the name of the asended Jesus Christ it is done! Amen. Sam is here with me making sure all is done correctly. -Love & blessings Douglas, Peggy & Sam Looking forward to growing old together. ***** We are all pulling for him and your mom. I heard he finally opened his eyes and I know if anyone is strong enough to make it through this it's Bruce. I'll never forget him showing his scrapbooks of when he was on the ice breaker ship. He just lit up telling us stories and then showing us around the coast guard base. It was one of the coolest things I had ever seen. We miss you guys and I wish we could be there with you to help. Please keep us updated. -Natalie (and Janet, Andi, Mary, Spike, Jon, and all the rest of our friends who are praying for Bruce and your family) ***** brucie Hey man i am lucky to have a brother in law like you i
want you back i was fortunate enough to spend some alone time whith you
yesterday and i was stroking your head you seemed to like it as i did so
i have a pryer of healing that i carry in my purse all the time so i
read that to you . ***** I heard from Sue Holtzinger about Mr. Firth and my thoughts and prays go out to both of you. Let him know that HIS DC2 Billy Hadaway from Sitka,AK is thinking and praying for him. -Billy ***** Dear Joyce, Yesterday's updates were very encouraging. Having Bruce respond to verbal stimuli and gloriously "peeing" are big accomplishments. I thank Adam a thousand times for setting up this marvelous avenue of communication between you and the countless relatives and friends of Bruce. I am glad to hear that the "nurses threw you out for the day" yesterday. That gave you permission to go home and get some decent sleep and also gave Bruce a break from having to respond to everyone. Continue to hang in and as always each day prayers are being said for Bruce, you, Adam, and the rest of the family. Take care of yourself. Love, Rosemari ***** Hi Joyce, I've been out of the country for awhile and am just back and getting caught up. My Mom's kept me informed of Bruce's ordeal. I wanted to let you know our thoughts and many, many prayers are with you both. I have absolute faith that God is watching over Bruce. If there's anything you need, please don't hesitate to ask. -Love to you both, Karen and Robert ***** Hello Joyce, this is Dirk. My sister brought me the awful news. Words escape me. I am thinking nothing but positive wishes for Bruce, you, Jean, Paul and Glenn and the rest of the family. Bruce was a great friend to me in ways that he wouldn't even know.-Dirk ***** To one of our most loved Coast Guard families: Bruce we are praying for you everyday and will continue to pray for you and Joyce. You have a long hard road ahead of you, but with family and friends around you we know you will come back to us. When we first met in Sitka Alaska in 1998 we thought of you as just another boss. Boy were John and I wrong! You and Joyce have become very special people to our family and we only wish you well. It was so special to us to have you at John's retirement party and we would like to have many more picnic's together. So please remember that we are all praying for a speedy recovery and love you both. Joyce if there is anything we can do, please just call, John and I will be there in a heartbeat. -Gods Blessing. Love, John, Sue, Amanda & Zac, New Freedom, PA ***** Hi Joyce, Bruce and family: Please know that you are all in our
prayers and we are thinking of you. -Mark and Mary (McNeely) Beasley ***** Dear Joyce - I just want to add my expression of support for Bruce and you. I haven't seen Bruce for a couple of years since leaving Minute Man NHP but I don't forget his gruff exterior masking an incredibly kindly nature. As you know better than anyone, he is a fighter with a tremendous will to live and to enjoy life with you and his family. My prayers are with you both. Melissa ***** Please know that people you have never met are also praying for Bruce and your family as you face these difficult days. We received a prayer request from Janet Conway and have shared it with our friends also. We are Mary McNeely's in-laws and live in Trussville, Alabama. Sincerely, Don and Jane Beasley ***** Just to let you all know we are so happy to hear of the progress Bruce has made so far. We check online regularly to see how things are going. Our prayers will continue each and every day for Bruce and all of you. Tim & Rita ***** ...Please know so many people are praying for you and Bruce. All three of my girls have called asking about him and expressing their concern. They have all said that Bruce is such a great guy and so strong, they are sure he will pull through...My vibes are strong, so you know I love you and think of you constantly. You are all in our prayers...and the prayers of people you don't know in Alabama, California, Alaska, Florida and the Midwest. Don't forget to kiss Bruce and tell him I love him. And you, too. Love, Janet ***** Hi Joyce, Bruce and family: Please know that you are all in our prayers and we are thinking of you. Mark and Mary (McNeely) Beasley Janet's daughter ***** Thank you Adam for setting up this web page to help keep people informed of Bruce's condition. And I also want to thank all of the extended family and friends of Bruce's for the support, love, prayers, and positive energy. As most of you know, Bruce will not do much of anything without a good fight, and this is just yet another example. Our thoughts and prayers for a strong recovery are with him. Glen Firth and family ***** Dear Adam, I am so sorry to hear about your step-Dad. I know how hard (and stressful) dealing with family illnes can be. My thoughts and prayers are with you. If there is anything I can do, don't hesitate to ask. Send my best wishes for a speedy recovery to your Mom. She is such a nice lady. Take care, Patti ***** We are praying hard Bruce!! We have all been talking about how nice you have always been to everyone! I think that says alot about you! Out of brief conversations with 7 people they all have a experienced your kindness! You will continue to be in our prayers Bruce! God Bless, Michelle (Thornton) Newton and Gwen and Magen Thornton ***** Dear Bruce, Paul and I are thinking and praying for you every day. Today is the feast of the Assumption of the Blessed Virgin Mary. When I went to church I lit a seven day candle with the fervent prayer that Mary would keep you close to her heart and petition her Son as only she can to strengthen you and heal you. We are sending our love to you and hope that you can feel not only that love but the immeasureable love of Joyce, your children, and beautiful grandchildren. We are all pulling for you. You are an amazing man with the good fortune of having an equally amazing team of health care personel. Hang tough. Keep the faith. You are too precious to all of us who care and love you. Rosemari Clogher ***** Bruce, I know that you're a fighter and a trooper because you have been
gathering your internal army to combat this terrible tragedy. The angels ***** Bruce- This is a heck of a way to get attention!!! Wendy's, McDonald's, Burger King and Arby's stock has dropped this week-not to mention Hormel ( Spam and Scrapple) you need to get better and keep the fast food econemy going!!!! We are all praying for you!!! -Love, Jayne , Henry and Penny!!! ***** Just a word from your Ft.Worth relatives, to let all know Bruce in all our thoughts and prayers. We will stay in touch either w/Joyce/Julie or this site. Please stay in contact w/us. Again, all our prayers are with you all during this trying time. Tim & Rita ***** The fact that Bruce survived such a devastating injury is testament to his strength and toughness. There are alot of his friends and co-workers praying for him and his family. Keep fighting Bruce. -Mike McCarthy ***** Hey Bruce, you’re one of the toughest guys we ever knew…hang tough in the pal, we’re thinking about you. Dan and Sherry Dattilio *****
....... and the good reports coming! Bruce is made of the toughtest
stuff out there and is just the kind of guy who will beat this. I'm
with you
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I just returned from vacation today and was saddened to learn what had happened. My thoughts and prayers are for you and your family during this difficult time. Best wishes for good health soon. -Ellen Fusco
***** Bruce, Every night we say a prayer that the Angels watch over you, ease your pain and help you heal. Thinking of you with love and faith for a full recovery. -Karen and Robert
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Just wanted to let you know that Andi, Mary, Spike, Jon, all our friends, and I are pulling for Bruce (and for you!). He is constantly in our thoughts. We love you guys. Please tell him that people all over the country are praying and thinking of him. -Natalie
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It was with deep
sadness that I read your e-mail this morning. Let me say first of all my
heart and all my prayers are with Bruce in this critical situation. I
pray also for you, his children, grandchildren and all in his extended
family for the pain and anquish that you are all experiencing. I
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I want to let you know that I am thinking of both you and Bruce. You need as much attention as Bruce. This is sending you a great big HUG. Hope you get it and it helps. Even a little. I can't even imagine what you are going through. But my prayers are with you and Bruce. Take care and keep going. Love Margie
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- how horrific. You must be beside yourself. I am praying for Bruce. Please keep me posted. Hugs -Jan
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I am so sorry
for all you must be going through right now. Please know that you are in
my prayers as well as Bruce, of course, and all of your family.
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We were so sorry to hear your news. Our prayers are for you both. All our love. -Doug, Peg, and Samuel Skye
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I just opened your e-mail and I'm so sorry to hear the bad news. I hope everything will turn out well, but in the meantime, please let me know if you need anything...Again, I'm sorry about Bruce. Take care. Your friend, Debbie.
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We are so saddened to hear about your terrible ordeal. Of course you are in our thoughts and prayers. That you could compose the e-mail you sent us is a testament to your amazing strength and faith. May God hold you both in his healing arms and give you strength and wholeness. -Dave and Cindi Orchard
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We are, obviously, shocked and concerned and have started the prayers immediately for Bruce, you, his family, his doctors, nurses, and caregivers. There is no way to know what our futures hold but we thanked the Lord too for allowing us the opportunity to meet and get to know Bruce even for that short time we were in Sitka. He is a fighter and hopefully, that perseverance and the prayers will enable us to spend some future time with the two of you. Thank you for your message and please do update us. We are hoping and praying for good news. -Cindi and Dave |
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